When Juliana mailed me and told me that she was getting married and couldn’t think of anyone else to take their photos, my heart melted!
And then of course when she asked me if I could consider travelling to Gothenburg just to take their couple photos, there was no doubt in my heart I just could’t say no. And there was no doubt in my heart either that that session would be a Beloved Session. The fact that she ”happened to be” from my hometown, have studied in the same Design University I did, had had the same major AND had the most wonderful name in the world, were just little details that added to the whole awesomess of this adventure together.
As part of the planning for our Beloved Experience on Saturday, they got to choose a place for us to ”explore”, a place that meant a lot to them, and they had to choose three objects to bring from home that ”reminded” them of each other. It turned out that one of the objects they brought, was the same! How cute is that: both brought Havaianas! It was the third ”object” though that made us all cry when Ingemar brought it out of his bag: he had made a compilation of all the mails they had sent to each other from the first time they met and under all the years they were having a long distance relationship, while she was living in Brazil and he was in Sweden.
Their pictures exhale the love, closeness, respect and togetherness which are the pillars of their relationship and I’m so happy I could capture these feelings for them in form of photography.
P.S.: as both Juliana and I are design-freaks, look at her amazing rings!!!! Designed by the Danish Designer Charlotte Linggaard. The rings are inspired in nature….just perfekt……LOVE them!
I’ve been to Iceland three times this year.
Every time it has been a completely different experience. Every time it has been completely mind-blowing.
That’s why I have decided that if I’m going to book a shoot in Iceland again, I want it to be like mind-blowing to everyone we photograph.
Having your wedding, pre-wedding, or like Yun’s shoot, your dream trip, documented in Iceland does not include only beautiful photographs in their fairy-tale environment. For us, it also includes an EXPERIENCE and and ADVENTURE together.
You really have to EXPERIENCE Iceland when you are there. The people, the food, the hot natural baths, the amazing power of nature. And then your photos will not only be a documentation of your stay there, they will also be palpable memories of how you felt in this magic place.
We picked up Yun, who had come all the way from China, at the Blue Lagoon and then she got to come along with us for an adventure we had prepared just for her under her two-day stay in Iceland. My colleague and photographer friend Jennie, who is an expert of everything to do with Iceland was our cultural guide. As Jennie is from the North of Sweden, she was also our expert ”snow and ice” driver, to make our trip together totally safe.
This is what we did under those two days, and that’s what you can get if you want to book us for your shoot:
We started our day in Geysir, where as we booked a hotel literally across the street from the Geysers, Icelands Geysers only for ourselves! To warm up a little and experience a little of the Icelandic hot bath culture, we drove to the Secret Lagoon in Fludir. A hot bath in the middle of nature and hot springs. Even with the rainy weather, it was magnificent! Along the beautiful road 30 towards the city of Vik where we would spend the night, Yun could ”meet” the truly friendly and kind Icelandic Horses (which Jennie also knew a lot about and taught us all about the horses behaviour, so we would know the difference of being happy or annoyed with us! ). Of course we had to stop by Seljalandsfoss and my favourite waterfall ever, Gljúfrabúi, which is hidden inside of a mountain and demands courage to visit. As Yun was super brave to go inside, so did we, and we had 20 seconds before our cameras got all wet to capture her in this out-of-this-world environment! The typical ”Icelandic Lamn Soup” by the waterfall is also a must in the cold November weather. If you are more a Fish-and-chips kind of person, there’s also a little ”food truck” in the neighbourhood that sells amazing ones.
The green moss outside Kirkjubaejarklaustur on the way to Jökulsarlón really looks like a scenery taken out of a sci-fi movie and of course we found the best looking part of it, to take some extra photos of Yun. The glacier lake was the day’s top adventure. Every time we have been to the lake, it looks different because of the Icebergs that fall down the water and are taken to the sea through the lake. As being the adventurers and curious people we are, we had to go to the beach to where all those icy bits are taken to and get some amazing shots there as well. The mountains and glaciers around this area are really breathtaking, so many stops were necessary along the way close to Skaftafell.
Thank you Yun, for wanting to do all the crazy stuff we had planned to you and for falling in love with Iceland as we done! Yun is a wedding planner from Shanghai who was testing our ”Adventure_Experience_Photography Package” in case any of her pre-wedding couples would like to have an unique Icelandic experience with us. You can find more about Yun and her modern thinking about Pre-wedding photography here:
Youfunfun Global Wedding&Travel Photography
And also thank you Delicious Presets for letting me test their Delicious Analog Story on these photos! I just loooove the skin tones of their presets!
Il Mare. Olive Trees. Chilli pepper. Narrow roads. Crazy driving. Olive Trees. Il Mare. La Montagna. Lemon. Il Mare.
Wow. It was my first time in the Amalfi Coast and I felt that I went all in. I even got asked if I were from Rome, which can be the biggest compliment for a fourth generation Italian.
And than add the most wonderful Brazilian couple to that list. Plus one of my mentor-students, that came along to learn about the way I think and shoot people in love in places to love.
We spent two days in Positano, waking up inhumanly early and waiting for the beautiful late afternoon light to set in.a
And all the small little cities down the coast, us driving, feeling sick with all the turns, laughing and stopping the car at everything that caught our eye. Just like a true adventure should be: filled of discovery and joy.
Hope you will also fall in love with these two and with this place as we did. From the second we saw the ”mare”….
When I was asked to prepare a new course on Destination Photography that would be filmed in Paris for Sweden’s biggest online photography school, Moderskeppet, I was thrilled to hear Louise and Anders would be my real life couple.
As my photography is very personal, and as I also wanted this course to be, I decided to use one of our Paris days as a ”real photography day”. We filmed everything I would do for real, as if I had a real couple wanting to take couple pictures in France.
I had heard Louise once say that what she loved the most about her relationship with Anders was the fact that they did things together. She thought that it was the doing-things-together that made their love so strong, even after all those years. Experimenting unexpected things, experimenting new cultures by really immersing themselves into that culture. Togetherness. One of my favourite words. And that word became the sparkle for my asking Anders to plan a surprise ”activity-day” together with Louise.
Anders, who is amazingly creative, came up with the idea of picking up things all day, in different areas of Paris, for a romantic picnic at sunset. The list would give Louise tasks to do stuff together with Anders, and at the same time, give them both the chance of discovering and exploring what’s French and what’s Parisian. And again, as Anders is who he is, the list turned out amazing!!!
Check it out:
1. The Wine Shop LES CAVES AUGE. Paris’ oldest wine shop which has been open since 1850. Ask for help in finding a romantic wine for the picnic.
2. FROMAGERIE LEPIC has cheese from all over the world. Buy one you think Anders would think it’s magically delicious.
3. In 2011, AU LEVAIN D’ANTAN won the very prestigious ”Paris best baguette” prize. Be sure to get one of them for your basket.
4. Go in SACRE COEUR and feel how it feels to stand inside such an impressive church. Light a candle for someone close to you. Don’t forget to check the old Carroussel on the bottom of the stairs as well.
5. Find HOTEL DE VILLE and try to re-create Robert Doisneaus famous kiss photo together with Anders.
6. Take Anders to the fantastic bookstore SHAKESPEARE & COMPANY and let him get lost in all those old books.
7. Walk west along the SEINE RIVER. See if you can find the house where CHAMPOLLION (who deciphered the hyerogliphs) lived. Keep on walking until you find CHOCOLATIER DEBAUVE ET GALLAIS and buy the most delicious chocolate you can find.
8. Walk on to LA GRAND EPICERIE where you can find all kinds of food in an amazing environment. Grapes are a must! And maybe something else you think should be included in a great picnic basket!
As you can see by the pictures, we had an amazing day together, AND a new idea was born: now when you book your Paris shoot with me, that’s what we will do. THINGS TOGETHER. That’s how I want to document Paris for you. Together with the Parisian Photographer Milena Perdriel, we will give you an unforgettable day in the city of lights, with beautiful pictures as a eternal reminder of how much fun and loving we had together!
I met K & J for the first time in their home. It felt warm, cozy and just like a family home should be.
”Our son wants to have a dress to the wedding. He wants to look as nice as his big sister and he thinks that a dress is a much nicer thing to wear than a jacket and tie.”, they said.
And I thought, wow! What a wonderful strong little boy. When I grow up I wanna be like him! And what an extraordinary family that just lets kids be kids. That’s the moment when I fell in love with them. I could tell them: ” You had me at ”dress”. ;-) And I hoped that he and the family would hold their ground until the wedding day.
On the wedding day, when he came out of the room, there he was. As nice as his big sister, proud, courageous, strong, with the cutest pink swirling dress. And it was fun as well! The whole day went to ”experimenting” playing with a dress. Not as easy when you are used to climbing and running and spinning, but it went just fine in the end. Even with the fancy shoes. Just like big sister’s. Needless to say that Gisela and I were in heaven!
A week after the wedding I traveled to Tallinn for judging in a wedding photography competition. At the same time the competition was taking place, many wedding photographers from all over the world talked about their passion for wedding photography. In the end, it all boiled down to telling stories. Your stories as a base for connecting with your couples’ stories.
When I came back to Stockholm to work on these pictures, it hit me. Yes….it’s all about stories, but not only yours or the couples’. More like a fusion. In this story, you will not only see K & J’s story, but much of my own. Moments that I don’t want to see being lost in time. Moments that work as a catapult to ”re-feeling” things that you wanted to re-live over and over again. I realized that falling in love with a couple can only happen if our stories share some of the same chapters. I realized that if both me and the couple share the same thoughts about what life is all about and how it should be captured, my photography can reach amazing depths.
Everyday life. Joy and happiness in the little mundane things of living with kids. Love as strong as a hammer. That when it hits you, you can only awe and capture it before it vanishes in time. And isn’t it what life is all about? A collection of milliseconds of love and…..true connection.♥
When you have done two weddings at the Ice Hotel, you think that you have a plan. You think you know everything.
Then you arrive and see that nothing was like it had been when you were there. You see that the temperatures are at least 20 degrees warmer and you see that the beautiful snow caped trees you had planned to have in the background of your dream pictures had become average green. And that the Ice Hotel is kind of melting.
You also notice though, that you happen to be there in a weekend of sun storms and a celestial nature show of Northern Lights all night long. And then all the terrible freezing wind during our couple shooting, all of that, is totally forgotten, because the pictures we get are incredibly warm. Their warm embrace. Their warm looks of pride when calling each other Mr. and Mrs. for the first time.
That your cute couple from England that you had only met on Skype is as wonderful and friendly and amazing as you had imagined, becomes the icing on the cake. I had thought that this would be a post with a few pictures, but I’m sorry, I just have to share with you all of these.
Intimate weddings, with family and close friends and an 80 year old grandma that goes up in the middle of the Ice Church and sings ”The Rose” a cappella, after had been doing all the possible winter activities the Hotel has to offer. Picture that. Yeah, Laya and I were in heaven.
That’s the kind of wedding photography we are meant to do. That’s the kind of wedding photography and connection with marvelous open people that touches our souls forever.
”We are going to get married in two weeks. Just the two of us. We get married and then we will send our friends and families a picture we take with the phone when it’s all done. It’s top secret.”
What is the first thing a wedding photographer does when a friend tells you she is getting married? Of course you wonder who the photographer will be.
”Ummm….we haven’t thought about that. We have no photographer. It will be simple, just us.”
What does a wedding photographer do when she hears that?
”ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND????? You will not document one of the happiest, most important days of your lives?????”
And the rest is history. I ended up ”suggesting” myself as a photographer as they were not going to have anyone anyways, right? And I added that I really wanted to do it as a present to one of my good friends whom I love (and also because I would never be able to live knowing they had NO PHOTOGRAPHER! hihih), it would be ok then to have me, right?
And as the pain-in-the-butt friend I am, I started: ”Wouldn’t it be great if he could at least have his family there? What about Astor??? He is part of your family. He HAS to come along. What? He is a puppy and veeery active??? No worries, we will have a fun shoot! You know me, I love a challenge! What about your clothes? You haven’t chosen your dress yet???? You could bring some cool gloves….and then we could try to have some snow in the background for the delight of the Brazilian friends and family…..”
So I ended up being there and feeling soooooo happy that I had convinced her to have me there. They were soooo happy. They were soooo in love. And while other wedding photographers were posing their couples by the structure of the beautiful City Hall in Stockholm, calmly and peacefully,we were running, screaming at Astor NOT TO JUMP and laughing until our stomachs hurt. It was complete chaos for a photographer that doesn’t have a dog and has a dream of having a family picture with all three (dog included) looking and smiling happily and blissfully at me!
I love how chaotic it was. I love how nervous I was for photographing a photographer. I love how my nerves were on top of my skin. I love that Jaanus suit was covered in dog hair in less than five minutes into the shoot. I love that Astor did nothing we asked him to do and still, he was great! I love that everyone around was looking at us as if we were aliens, specially the other wedding photographers. I love that I could capture the wonderful out-of-this-world-awesome people this two are. And I love that I could have another friend with me that kept telling me that everything would be ok (and holding the dog, which was a greeeeat help sometimes!). Thanks Jonas!
I tried to keep this post short, as we only shot for one hour, but it was impossible. Tooooo much love. Toooo much goodness. And as Maira is also one of the best wedding cinematographers here in Sweden, I couldn’t resist being a little film inspired with some photo-sequences…..So here you are, my love statement to M & J!♥
Whenever someone wants to book us for a destination wedding, we book a Skype meeting first.
We feel that connection & affinity are the first rules for us to bring out the best of both of us. If we are going to spend days together, we’d better like each other from the start.
When I talked to Jo & Jason, it was love at the first Skype-sight. Adorable was the least I could say about them. From the first minute, we talked as if we were old friends and everything they said was answered by a big ”me toooooo”. When Maira and I landed in Tromsö and saw that they had booked us all rooms in a 100 year old typical Norwegian home WITH a Norwegian family, my backpacker heart sang. We were then sure we were going to have great days ahead.
I find it really amazing how you can connect and have sooo much in common with people you have just met and come from completely different cultures. It’s almost like you are living inside a dream world where weird coincidences are part of everyday life.
J & J were studying and working in the UK, but were originally from Brunei, where they will get married in April. We knew nothing about Brunei, so our days were spent driving hours around to find the most beautiful locations, eating delicious food, discussing cultures, life, love & how wonderful our world is. I can see that our strong connection has affected how our photos turned out. When I look at them I can still remember our wonderful time together, how brave they were in the terrible cold, their laughs, their hugs, their sweet love and the pure friendship they offered us from the beginning.
I really miss them and our adventures, but I’m sure that we have made friends for life and one day I’ll be showing you pictures of their beautiful family in Brunei! ♥︎
My fiancé and I are hoping to take some pre-wed shots with an artistic flair. We’ve been together for a decade and he is the first and last man that I have been with. Our relationship has withstand adversity and years of long distance much like my favorite phrase ‘ad astra per aspera’ ‘through adversity the stars’. Being avid constellation enthusiasts with a dream to see the northern lights, I am writing to enquire if you would be interested in ‘freezing’ our time in Norway in hope to catch one of life’s wonders, the Aurora Borealis. ”
I can’t even try to explain what happens when I get mails like this. Personal. Warm. Honest. From their heart straight to mine.
And for couples like that, I could walk a 1000 miles. Or better said, I could fly to the top of the world, to the door to the Artic. To freezing temperatures and blue light (read: two hours of terrible-zombie light with no sun) so difficult to work with, that my whole soul started singing just with the idea of the challenge.
YES. I-LOVE-challenges. Or better said: wonderful people who want to go into crazy unknown adventures with us.
Our preparation to this adventure included lots of reading expert texts about photographing night skies and the Northern lights, as well as courses on how to use flashes and video lights in the dark. After much learning and reading, we felt we had done our best to prepare ourselves.
I’ll be writing a special post about these two amazing souls that boarded on this trip with us, as there is waaaay too much to be said about that part of our adventure. Let’s go back now to the challenging-part of our mission in Norway.
Northern Lights. ”Unexpected. Unpredictable. Fast. Moving. Dark. Freezing Cold. Damn hard to catch on camera.”
That’s what we heard when we asked people about their own experiences with the lights. Yeeeeeeeee…aaaa..hhh…hard enough for experienced nature photographers and we would be attempting to do that WITH a couple? Mmm….after a second of thoughts like ”what were we thinking????”, I started to think as myself again and instead of seeing difficulties, I started making a list on how to solve the problems we might have. And of course, list a set of Plan Bs, Cs, AND Ds. A part of plan B was to provide the couple with amazing winter pictures and with a sky full of stars, just in case the lights wouldn’t give us the pleasure of showing up. A part of plan C was staying in Tromsö for 5 days, to maximize our chances of witnessing the lights.
Even though we had all the extra plans, we got both the beautiful sky/snow/stars pictures and FOUR days of Northern lights, including seeing the lights in the first five minutes we sat together in the car towards our BB house. ”And to your right, you can see our famous Northern Lights playing in the sky tonight”, said the taxi driver. We couldn’t believe it!
For you who are planning on photographing the Northern Lights WITH a couple, here you have some things we have learned:
-Have extra plans. Talk to your couple about the extra plans. The only thing you should promise is that you will do your best, as you cannot control nature and order Northern Lights to show up whenever you want.
-Have patience + dress warm, specially on your feet and hands= the best combination for waiting for the lights for hours in -10 C.
-Keep your car warm and bring a Thermos. We brought two (plan B), one for us and one for our couple. Those thermos were used every night to give us some extra warmth and energy while we were out in the wild hunting for the lights. Also good to bring those warm pads we talked about in our post about the Ice hotel. The warm car was a life saver for warming our brave bride after the pictures she was just wearing her wedding dress.
-Bring a good tripod, video lights, if not to light your couples, to light them long enough for you to focus on them. After you focus, put your lens on Manual, and ask the couple not to move for the 15s you will be leaving your shutter open.
-Don’t light your video lights or Flash a Flash when you are near groups of people that are just there to photograph the sky. They will literally KILL YOU if you destroy their images with your flashes of light. Do as we did: find a place where you can be alone!
-And last but not least: shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot…..you will NOT get your perfect picture if you don’t stand for hours in the cold and don’t try every single thing you have learned!
ad astra per aspera
What an exciting month this has been!
Many months ago I got a mail from Australia. E & A, who had found me through the wpja.com, were wondering if I could be their photographer at their intimate wedding at the Ice Hotel in Jukkasjärvi, Kiruna, 200m above the Polar Circle, in the north of Sweden.
They were looking for our photojournalistic approach that reflected their fun & happy personality and at the same time, captured the beautiful winter surroundings of the Ice Hotel, where E had spent some time working as trainee a couple of years ago. What a dream! Just my cup of tea!
We checked the weather and to our delight, it would be -34 C that week. Well, if you are shooting in the North Pole, let’s have North Pole weather, right?
Thankfully, the temperatures just reached -24 C that week, so we didn’t freeze as much as we thought we would. We succeeded planning their couple shoots for three hours and thanks to E’s amazing family, who came along with us with warm jackets, gloves and hats, we could ”uncover” them, take a picture, play a little, and then go back to covering them all over again!
When we got to Kiruna, we also noticed that everything was ”blue”. Really blue. Blue snow, blue people, blue everything. When we googled it, we learned that from December 15th to January 15th, a phenomena called ” The Blue Twilight” happens above the Polar Circle:
The blue hour
Around 1–2 o’clock in the afternoon, the residual light is reflected off the blue sea and the white snow, and the landscape is bathed in a glassy deep blue color. This wonderful blue stays with us as long as the snow covers the ground and there is twilight. However, the blue hour occurs a few minutes later every day during winter, as the sun gains strength.
The Blue was wonderful but not as wonderful for us photographers, as every single person looked like they had come out Avatar. Thanks to our research previous to our trip, we also learned that having our cameras’ WB on Kelvin degrees, we could fix the blue out of peoples’ skin, as well as using the flash at all times inside the Ice Hotel. For me who avoid as much as I can to use a flash, this was really an amazing learning experience, nothing better than a challenge to become better photographers!
E & A also decided not to have the wedding ceremony in the Ice Church, but inside the beautiful hall of the Ice Hotel.
Our groom surprised the bride by bringing her favorite Swedish artist to sing at the ceremony. Wow, how wonderful it was to see her reaction and to hear Jens Lekman sing a song he had composed specially to our cute Australians -January 15th (http://jenslekman.com/records/smalltalk.htm ). I looooove the lyrics! Please do note that there’s a little ”cloud” of smoke on every picture: their BREATH! ;-) As it’s -5 C inside the hotel, you can see everybody’s warm breath in every picture! ;-)
After the ceremony, the couple left for their nine month trip around the world before they go back home to Australia. Wow, what a couple, what an experience, what a wedding! We had soooo much in common that I’m sure I’ve made friends for life! ♥
Artists for the pictures below:
ICEBAR by ICEHOTEL Jukkasjärvi. Boom av Wouter Biegelaar, Viktor Tsarski & Maurizio Perron
ART SUITE: Hot Type in a Cold Setting av John Bark & Charli Kasselbäck
ICE CHURCH: IN THE GLADE David Andrén, Johan Andrén, Tjåsa Gusfors, Sweden